What Do You Think About Attachment Styles?

Joel, I would just offer that when I really discovered I'm predominantly anxious but a healthy amount of avoidant and would swing between those two things both within a relationship and patterns across relationships. There was definitely this there's not enough love in the world to go around. And so my strategy was to pull people in almost as if I was consuming them to try to stay close to them to meet that deep need to feel safe and secure and loved. What do you all think on that? For me it's not a thing for me it's a future thing. It's more looking towards the future and maybe is there something better, maybe, rather than the rather than a being hurt.