Should I Ask Not to Bring Newborns to a Wedding?

My brother is getting married in august and his bride has a very specific vibe. She approached my mamma to let her know that the twins are not invited to the wedding because of said vibe. My problem lies in the fact that i don't think it's acceptable for some one to ask you to be apart from your newborns, that's soon after the birth. Please keep me anonymous. In, i'm going to leave this. Onceoucai took you on board, i think we cin'd of got a respect their decision. An yo, buta get newborns, maybe he just gon for a few hours? Yes, maybe the compromise is, am,