Is Love a Stepstone to Polly Amery?

Some people seem to think that cheating can be a stepping stone to polly amery. And sometimes it can be. In my own case, my first foray into polly amory began with me cheating on the man i was married to at the time. I found a way to finally talk to him about it, cause i realized i suck at lying,. But, you know, really, i was just trying to find a way to be true to myself when i didn't even have a vocabulary to explain it. The ca is is that sometimes that can be people's paths to concentual nomenogmy polyamery.