I'm Sure You're Gorgeous. I Don't Kiss the Scoop, Spoon, Scoop!

When i was 20, i worked in a pub with my best friend. She ended up sharing a room with the boy we both fancied. It turns out they had shared the bed for the night but not even kissed. He would every so often put his finger up her bumas they were spooningo. But she said the sex was never really recovered from their first night of bum fingering. I don't know where to start here - it's just left me all confused. Please keep me anonymous, as my story is about my friend.