Is There Brain Washing?

At the pluralist stage, there's a realization that the mind has far less control over being moulded than you previously believed. The brain washing was that i am the only one who wasn't brain washed, which, of course, means i was the most brain washed. You start to see that, see that takes a sort of ameta self reflection. They're both stuck within their little, narrow paradime, and they're both busy defending it without being aware of what they're doing. Both unable to step up to a higher elevation, d look downwards and to see, ah, how maybe the two could be reconciled as a sort of a yin and yang think.