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#169 Dr Gabor Maté on Why We Are All Addicts

Feel Better, Live More with Dr Rangan Chatterjee

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You Don't Blame People, You're Not Responsible

I make the distinction between blame and responsibility. Blame says that you did something that you could have done otherwise, and so o, therefore you're at fault. Responsibilithe says yes, you do this to yourself, but not consciously or deliberately you did it because your own childhood experience,. which in urn was em programmed by your parents sheltered experience. So there's nobody at fault. Everybody does their best. But we do pass these unconscious patterns on. And you don't blame people for having unconscious patterns. You try to make them conscious of it so they can take responsibility for it. Without awareness, none of us are responsible. It's a matter of liberating people from ingrained

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