People stop growing at age 10 or 13. They're unlabelled data, no manual. Figure out a goal, get fed, get laid, eat, survive,. do something, socialize. And they're generally that person till the end of their lifeUnless there's an intrupt unless there's something that says, hey, you'd better think about this. You'd better look at the construct that you become. If you figure it out in 30 or 40 years, and you get to decide which life path you want to choose - then when you get there, then life can become a real adventure and truly joyous.