Roxanne Jones: If you get jealous that means you're insecure and everybody can see it. Everybody knows oh you see that person as a threat You're threatened by this other person. That's why you're getting jealous because somewhere you think you're weaker poorer dumber Inferior to this other human So don't act that way even if you have to just gut through it, she says. "It is a bad look and it doesn't help you in your life"