I'd Love for You to Come, Right?

There's this element over the course of a relationship that I really want you to come is code for, no, you're coming because if you don't, I'll give you enough grief. So therefore, I get that's kind of that deniability statement. Well, but then you're using obligation and pressure. Yeah. Then they go deeper than this to Jennifer because I think there's this element in marriage where it's like 'I'm going to treat you incredibly poorly if you don’t' Right. For sure. If that's going on in the marriage, then it is code. But I'm also often trying to talk to higher desire people about a distinction between disclaim