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How To Have A Drama Free Marriage

Strong Men Strong Marriages

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The Problem of Being the Hero in a One Up Relationship

"I wanted to be the hero inor in our marriage, and so what i started doing was really over functioning," he says. "When you start feeling burnt out by that and resentful, now you have shifted from the hero into the villain in that triangle, right? Sorry, into the victim in that triangle." He also talks about how it can lead to a one up relationship with your wife where you need to feel superior to her. 'You know who the villain is? It's your wife. She's not doing what you want her to do'

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