You Have No Chance, Right?

"The first thing you must do, you must get attention," he says. "If a woman wants to get a date, get a boyfriend, get married, she needs to be noticed." The problem is that in school, especially in school, we are trained to be the same as everybody,. We're trained to avoid being different, right? So we're trained to just follow the rules. Do the same thing everybody else is doing. Be quiet. Sit in your chair. Don't be noticed. And it's not just dating. It's all things. This is also true for your job, for your life!"