When I get off track or things feel really messy, I often come back to Amy. A eulogy like that is very clear who you are and what do you hear for? That would really ground you. The other grounding thing that's sad to talk about is the fact that we're not here for very long. You're literally going to die. This story ends. To me, just reminding myself of that every morning, when you write a screenplay or when she writes a novel,. Often you want to put a kind of ticking clock in the story.