"Even by the standards ofa style influenceer, it's like one of the most tone deaf things i've ever heard in my life," says writer. "I'm not wild about describing somebody who cleans your house as like, che lean toilets," she adds. 'It's such a belittling way to talk about somebody else,' another user responds. "'Rise and grind' is just opposing her, like, very open contempt of the woman who cleans her house with this like, rise and grind thing,'" an anonymous commenter writes.