"I see my wife reaching back down into the jag core to women that are like her, and in schooling them and helping them. We apply ourselves to these things and say, hey, don't go where we went. Here's a better way to approach this thing." "Leadership starts at home. If you're not leading in your home, you're not going to be able to lead in the military," he says. 'You got to bring yourself home and present'