You Don't Dream Together, Then You Do Not

This is also the stage of the relationship as you're deepening your understanding of each other's financial goals and thoughts. This is maybe also the time where you kind of identify your archetypes, right? Like, oh, so I'm the saver and they are the spender or whatever it might be. You know, sometimes one person says, I am insisting on taking this lavish vacation and the other person says, we just can't afford it.