The author says marriage is good and bad depending on if the marriage is good or bad. A happy marriage makes you happy, an unhappy marriage can make you very unhappy. Heer plays a by to show that people are far more resilient than we think they are when it comes to dealing with negative things in their lives. The only thing i've seen that produces a permanent denigration in happiness is divorce.

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