The Two Components of Bonding

If you grew up with emotionally immature parents, are you more likely to be attracted to that in a partner? Or are you self aware enough to spot those red flags and avoid them? You know, i think it goes both ways. I think some children, a are not attracted to difficult people because they have been very conscious of what their parents were like. And for them, this feels miliar. If an emotionally immature person starts to flirt with them or puts the moose on them, there's something about that person that feels familiar, right? Those are emotionally imature,. But, ah, the two components of bonding thi a john balby said this years and years ago in