The Politeness Marker in Rel Life?

Kisama, which is now yt ou my about the konji kisama, it's kind of funny, because chinese speaking, japanese onors, they think it's polite way of referring to you. I've seen it in like, anima ye and, you know, aunt t v, aunt toly. But eben, like a common one in rel life. Like when you say ca, like is sharp, but we use all a, what is it prefex? Yes.