The Importance of Conflict Resolution

Siblings Sam and May have always fought with each other fiercely. But they do love each other, but it's not always obvious. I'm so frightened of conflict that when there is inevitable conflict, either between my children as siblings or when they go to school and have roused with their friends, I just can't deal with it. And then I just feel sort of panic-stricken by the fights between each other. Why can't you just be nice to each other, right? It makes me feel powerless. She felt like she was good with one kid because you just don't own the kid and the kid loves you. And there's another one who both kind of need to