What's the Unitive Stage?

The unitive way is a and we were talking about this off the camera, so to speak, where you go through purification. You go through what john across describes as dark nights. It's the holy spirit tapping into deeper levels of our resistance god and surfacing them. But he also says that not everything that we experience as dark nights is actually an action of god. Sometimes it's because of our own infidelity to the spiritual practices that keep us in communion with the lord.