How to Communicate Well With Autistic Kids

Echolalia is communication for autistic people right so I'm saying we can use Echolalia to communicate well. When I'm repeating something you just said you think why you're mocking me I'm communicating to you that I might be in distress or it might be overwhelmed or you know I might need a breather but there's many examples the hot chocolate example is a funny one between my wife and I  I've learned by remembering and repeating the words of others so what do you when you want a hot chocolate what do you say well you ask someone else okay I'll get a my wife do you want aHotChocolate.