How to Start From a Place of Something You Want

I think I love both of these ideas of how to really starting from a place of something I want. So that I'm more motivated, right? To do the thing I need to do to get to the other side. And when, when they're at that place where one of them is saying, I'm giving up, I'm ready to give up. I say, that's a playable option. You can totally do that. But here's what you're leaving on the table. This is the list you gave me. The reasons why your, your relationship is good. Yeah. Absolutely. A lot of the problems that you're going to find, you'll find them in the