How to Take Responsibility for Your Fuck Up

I think that's the only that's what you really want to talk about where the failure's happening. It's definitely just the beating yourself up judging yourself too harshly. The question is when you get to that point, like I did something wrong, how long do you sentence yourself to lamenting your fuck up? That's a real problem with spirituality or Buddhism. A lot of people accuse spiritual people or Buddhists of being passive. They say it's a kind of nihilism or a spiritual way to become completely passive in your life.