How Do You Know Who to Marry?

I don't think we should spend our lives trying not to have emotions for fear we're gong to get lost in them. And that when ations arise for grief like your brother's illness and his imminent death, i think that you should let yourselffeel whatever you feel...and then realize that at some point you'll come up for air. The most important thing you can share with somebody that is going through a transition out of their body is truth. Do you hear that? I think that the attempt to be strong is a kind of strength that isn't coming out of the strength of being rooted in the depth of of the truth of the matter. So, i mean,