Ryan: If your life is better without certain people in it, should you keep going to that job or get a different job? "There probably is a part of me that's like, look, I'll do it. And if I'm in my best possible mood, maybe I'd even do that" He says he and his wife Val moved from Texas to Ohio because their mantra was 'good life win' The couple now live on a farm with some animals; the house costs less than Ryan's New York apartment.