"I don't need to give everyone a reason. This is just the standard that I'm setting for my life," she says of her non-negotiables. "If you've only been tolerating men, you have to look after and you finally come across a guy who actually has the means to bring this experience to your life That you've been longing for." 'We're extracting emotional labor from us every day,' writes writer/director Toni Collette. "'Men feel bold enough to ask you for pussy, don't be scared to ask them for shit either', women tell each other,'" he adds.