If you want to change the world and be a leader of any kind, or start a company that employs people other than yourself, you have tode lop the ability to help others. Most of the time it's about not trying to force what you think the other person should do on them. It is more about being in relationship to the person, understanding them,. asking questions s going on for this person right now. If you're a manager or a c o at work, like what's happening in their lives, taking a genuine interest because you actually care.