The Importance of Conversations Outside of Friendship

I would focus on the two out of 10 times when it does feel right. I think that what's coming up for you in those moments is your discomfort and you're not, your disinterest in taking that relationship to a deeper place. But once you are spending more time with somebody and sharing more personal things with somebody and it's reciprocated, then that person will be willing to talk about your struggles.