Relationship Advice - What's She Doing Right?

i went through a really big relational shift over the past 16 months or so. It was very easy for me to be in this kind of comparative head space and critical head spaces, like, what is she doing right? Or is this right or just constantly evaluating the rightness of the relationship. And i think that it's easier to be there, oftentimes, because our world and our culture is kind of so negatively wired. Theure so much external evaluation going on, punitive evaluation going on. So i think the permission that you're kind of setting up here, you're allowed to look at your relationship and ask yourself, what's really great here? For me, that's an unlock