The Importance of Being a Student of My Children

"I wanted to be able to really study my children and know them," she says. "If I'm a student of my child's heart, I have to go ... even though this thing seems like, surely this person is doing this to get under my skin." She asks herself: Is it something that they're trying to be disobedient? Or is it a head issue where they truly just don't even notice that the bed is unmade?"