I Love Sex and I Love Being Gay

"I'm a pleaser in sex. I like just making sure that he feels good sexually and that his needs are being met as long as they're in alignment to me," she says. "A lot of my things, like honesty and directness, these sorts of things, they're really tied into my attachment style." She's had a very confusing upbringing when it comes to understanding love and relationship. 'If the wheels fall off, at least we had fun while we were driving before the wheels fell off,' her ex-boyfriend told her.