The Importance of Perversion in Marriage

"I've seen this before you ever could understand God's original agenda," he says. "You have been trained how to please yourself versus learning how to please each other." The author was molested by his uncle as a child, and the pastor told him he would go to hell if he did sex with another man. Some of the comments were first person response: No, it was taboo in my house. We never talked about it. still to this day and I'm 35.