How Important Is Sharing Your Values to Who You Marry?

How important is sharing your values to who you marry? But that seems like the first question. Some people talk as if it's everything. And I guess I think no, I don't mean being friendly and accommodating. I guess everyone does they want that. We want a spouse who likes the same food as us. Not that that's the number one thing; but eating with people is one of the things you do. People fight over disagreements about food. So concrete, like there's a kind of very thin abstract alignment for any associates They're going to spend a lot of time with.I'm not so sure how important it is. A big place where alignment shows up in our lives