The Four Types of Knowing

In an argument with your partner, the best thing you could have done was just stop talking and give that person a hug. That's always felt like a northogonal move thata didn't come naturally to me but i'm getting more comfortable with it. And then something happens to maybe my relevance realization, and then i realize there's another thing i can do here. But what is that? Is that a, how would you explain that using the forpiece? Yes, thank you. I think that's a really good example, and it also points to so that's becoming more prominent in my thinking.