When Other People Encourage You, How Are You Feeling?

When things are going well, other people encourage you and it makes you feel good. But after you perceive that you've failed and other people encouraging you, i think you actually feel worse. So how does that work? It's like having the opposite effect. I don't know. There's an element of trying to just lone wolfit, figure it out myself. And absolutely right. Ye its qit licked.