Linde: The word transform is the perfect word. Ill we change our tone of voice when we use that word as well, i feel exactly as you did there. It's just three things. If i just change three small things, my whole life will be different. But it's a snowballing effect. It's the domino effect. And this has come back to it literally, by me where people i've been, you lied linde, your book says it's just threeThings. Ye, i am aware of the tone that happens, because sometimes i don't know where i heard it. It was within the last year or two. When you're telling somebody