"What's the antidote for that? How d how do yu have an open mind enough to change that course?" "Can we discern, not agree entirely, but can we discern some things are commandments of god and some things are traditions of men?" 'We take the commandments of scripture,. traditions of men, put em in a stew, blend em together and then drink em and go. That's the only way'
As dads, we are the steward of our children, but it's God who owns them at the end of the day. We must serve our kids and give them every chance to know God and love Him; after that, it's up to them. We just have to let God direct their adult life and not connect our success as fathers to "their success." Whatever they get into, whether music, cars, or something we know nothing about, all we gotta do is be there when they need us the most. The rest can be left up to the Lord.