The Importance of Taking Your Partner's Health Into Consideration

I can speculate all day long about how he probably maybe didn't do things that were quite right um I certainly have questions about the length of time from the time of the arrest the police were calling the arrest to when somebody finally went wait this was kinky and this was consensual. But what I go back to is not just a full-throated defense of a partner which people who are victims of abuse will still do like out of fear out of whatever but a full- Throated open defense of this relationship and BDSM where you literally remove any privacy and anonymity you have for that right? That's powerful because if it was about defense of the husband just in general or even wanting to maintain