There's actually an old m f c o episode called battle ground mentality. I don't happen to remember what the episode was, but you you spend forty minutes expounding on this whole concept of you have to change your expectation. Listen, de the expectations they teach us in the idea of being kind or handicap the shit out of us is probably the single greatest, a destructive thought i've ever seen. When you're young, you'll be told you can do anything. And the older you get,. you'll be limited and more people will try to instil them on you. Your job is to resist that. In fact, i'm thankful that you laughed at me, because that