The Importance of Having a Holding Environment

The thing that they can't handle in their own lives, like everything else human, gets projected right back out into the world. The child who experiences traumatic violence is the kid who also becomes a bully at school. There are two good bumper stickers that can help us through this. One is Misery Loves Company. And so also with desire. People who are exorbitantly desirous usually enjoy producing desire and others. Extreme forms of desire.