When you're aware that these patterns are going on, then you buy yourself time. Buying yourself time so you can untangle the patterns and also start to break free. The third one is understanding that generally, people are treating us how we've taught them to treat us. And part of breaking out of being a chronic people pleaseher is resetting those expectations.
Welcome to The Big Idea of the Week!
On today’s episode of The Dhru Purohit Podcast, Dhru talks to us about how to stop being a chronic people-pleaser.
In this episode we dive into:
-10 signs you’re a people pleaser (3:48)
-Definition of people pleasing (7:51)
-Understanding the origins of people pleasing (8:15)
-How to break free from people pleasing (22:21)
-Why you have a difficult time saying no (23:50)
-Why you don’t admit when your feelings are hurt (30:55)
-Why you apologize way too often (33:24)
-How to get out of chronic people pleasing (41:38)
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