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Happier with Gretchen Rubin
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How to Butter People Up Effectively
Gretchen Rubin: "When I see patterns identified, I just feel like I see the world more clearly" She says people who are really cunning are pretty good at not being detected that they're doing the buttering up. The first is to frame flattery as advice-seeking and then accept a manager's opinion before accepting it immediately.
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