"Aftercare is needed for most people," she says. "Every single time that they care just makes it much more better because it brings back the internal dynamics of the couple to be much more stronger" After a swinger event, you don't have to talk about your actual relationship or sex life but can discuss hypothetical things like what do you think about other people? She adds: "I love food afterwards."
In this episode, Hannah is joined by Shani and Tony Hart, who are swingers and who own two erotic boutiques called Hart’s Desires. Shani and Tony discuss what swinging is, Shani and Tony’s boundaries and how to find your own, as well as how to find fellow swingers and events and the importance of communication. They and Hannah talk about the swinging scene in relation to feminist and anti-racist spaces, and the segregation they’ve witnessed in the swinging community. Finally, Hannah, Shani, and Tony discuss running a business together, conflicts in relationships, and therapy.
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