How to Talk to a Couple About Money

When there's a significant amount of spending from one spouse that hasn't made the money, I think that causes a lot of friction. And it's really challenging to kind of give both those spouses a voice because they each know the right and they do - in their own ways. Just go out and enjoy your money. To prove to them, hey, you've saved all your life. Go enjoy, go on trips. Take your family away. Get to the charities you care about,. Those conversations are really neat because you can show them like, Hey, you're, you did it, right? You checked all the boxes.