What Does a Child Most Need?

We get caught in the trance of superiority as we know, which is a sense of arrogance and inflation. We kind of often swing from being special and important to being nobody and nothing. And it's not just wounding from our family or parents, it's wounding from our culture because our culture does a really good job at creating tremendous wounding in non-dominant populations. The more wounding, the more there's that defensiveness that has to evolve.