"Our brains aren't wired for the positive in a situation like this, because you know, we our brains are wired to make us survive," he says. "If I don't get to talk to her as fast as I can in three seconds, I'm going to miss out on something that could be awesome." The ultimate goal is not even thinking about whether she's going to react positively or not reacting positively - just having an enjoyable experience with her.

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