The Mystery of Hobbies

The mystery of hobbies could be explained as simply saying, people don't like to be bossed around. My current job, making videos about food on YouTube, that started as a hobby, and I don't have a boss telling me what to do. But it's how I make my living, and the need to make a living is its own boss. The way that he and I enjoy life, or not, just seems fundamentally different in some way that we still don't understand after 41 years of knowing each other.