There have been days that i've packed with a million things. But we so few of us seem to know the joy of of commitment. Twenties do go intoyo ido am, my twenties until my 30 ye some people have 50, tetheir 80, but my dad's roughly seventeenomjum isba. They curdle into, like, darker things. So, you know, the flexibility, i say, and the book curdles into a choice paralysis. You jump from things a thing that you no longer have the capacity to a,. choose anything, because you're so scared that youre gong to choose the wrong thing.