Desire Is a Social Illusion

Desirability is a social illusion. Its source is less what you say or do, than the sense tht other people desire you. To turn your target's interest into something deeper, into desire, you must make them see you as a person whom others cherish and covet. The aura of desirability will envelop you. Your admirers can be friends or even suitors. Call it the harem effect.