The Importance of Being Self-Aware

Everyone has some type of childhood trauma without even realizing it. We attract partners that are similar to our childhood traumas or our parents when they hurt us because it's your brain hoping to really help you. And the reason we end up attracting these separate partners, not just emotional and available, anything that feels familiar. So I attracted my partner who I was obsessed with was my second boyfriend because my first song was just chilling, but my second one was like a drug.